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Sex, Monogamy and Relationships

Re: Sex, Monogamy and Relationships

Postby HeatherG » Tue Jan 29, 2013 6:18 pm

first i would like to say that "open" relationships can mean different things. i understand having your primary relationship and then going out and having sex with another person but not having a relationship with them other than sex. to me this is what an open relationship means. and i think it would only work if it was ok with both partners that both partners be able to play the field if both wanted to. I dont believe monogamy works for everyone... in the same way butt sex doesn't. and i think people in relationships would benefit more if they understood that. but i think that having multiple sex partners makes more sense than having multiple relationships. i agree with what a lot of you said, that is just too much confusion and drama that doesnt seen worth it to me. watching Big Love drove me nuts because i could never handle that.

I would also like to say that i do not agree with my husband. although having sex with my husband is better than having it with anyone else because he is my husband, i do not look at sex as anything more than a physical act. i think you can have a healthy sex life without being in love. that probably sounds funny that my husband and i have sex for different reasons but it works fine for us :) (also that made it sounds like i bang other people and i dont, we are very monogamous and committed to one another).

next, i HATE when anyone cheats and claims "oh well we were never meant to be monogamous". Cheating can happen for a number of reasons. If you are in a committed monogamous relationship and want to have sex with someone else, that is something you need to discuss with your partner and talk about. My husband and i have the most trusting relationship. If i ever was dangerously attracted to someone, i would let him know, and i have. The same with him. I know my husband would never cheat on me because we value our relationship and our trust and if he came to me one day and said he wanted to have sex with someone else, we would talk about it and who knows maybe i would let him! but people DO NOT CHEAT BECAUSE ITS IN THEIR NATURE TO BANG EVERYONE. that just annoys the hell out of me.

in response to the government acknowledging these kinds of relationships i think they should. BUT i dont think they should get any government should give any breaks. i dont think anyone should get government breaks because of their relationship status. but you should be able to apply for insurance as married and all that good stuff just no government help. and no welfare because you have multiple baby mommas to take care of.
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Re: Sex, Monogamy and Relationships

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Re: Sex, Monogamy and Relationships

Postby J.K. Gregg » Tue Jan 29, 2013 6:24 pm

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Re: Sex, Monogamy and Relationships

Postby HeatherG » Tue Jan 29, 2013 6:27 pm

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Re: Sex, Monogamy and Relationships

Postby The Comrade » Tue Jan 29, 2013 6:52 pm

tet sounds kind of homo though
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Re: Sex, Monogamy and Relationships

Postby J.K. Gregg » Tue Jan 29, 2013 7:03 pm

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Re: Sex, Monogamy and Relationships

Postby The Comrade » Tue Jan 29, 2013 7:04 pm

already found it. it's pizza.

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Re: Sex, Monogamy and Relationships

Postby J.K. Gregg » Tue Jan 29, 2013 7:07 pm

She's MY mistress!
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Re: Sex, Monogamy and Relationships

Postby The Comrade » Tue Jan 29, 2013 7:08 pm

there's enough room in pizza's heart to love everyone, and be loved by everyone.
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Re: Sex, Monogamy and Relationships

Postby Winchester » Tue Jan 29, 2013 7:24 pm

I've of the opinion whatever floats your boat, I really don't care. That being said, no way I could be in an open relationship, ever, to me the benefits just don't outweigh the costs... in other words someone would end up dead.

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